{"id":11430,"date":"2020-10-10T16:34:49","date_gmt":"2020-10-10T13:34:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/?p=11430"},"modified":"2022-12-05T02:12:28","modified_gmt":"2022-12-04T23:12:28","slug":"inis-mi-cikis-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/blog\/2020\/10\/10\/inis-mi-cikis-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130ni\u015f mi? \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f m\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"blob:https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/f1b1b1dd-83a9-4761-9233-985896ea7828\" alt=\"hamburger.svg\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cY\u0131kmak \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r, yapmak \u00e7ok zor!\u201d en sevdi\u011fim s\u00f6zlerden biri olmakla birlikte sonuna \u201cama imkans\u0131z de\u011fil\u201d c\u00fcmlesini eklemek istiyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayatta bir \u015fey zor ise imkans\u0131z de\u011fildir. Yeter ki istekli olunsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yapmaya ba\u015flarken yukar\u0131 do\u011fru \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla da bir g\u00fc\u00e7 sarf etmek vard\u0131r. Zorluk anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 buradan gelir \u0130nsan i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f basamak basamak ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir, bir anda olmaz. Basamaklar\u0131n sonunda neye ula\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 detayl\u0131ca bilirsek \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f daha bir anlaml\u0131 ve hevesli olur. Nas\u0131l \u00e7\u0131k\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n plan\u0131 ve netli\u011fi ise her basamakta at\u0131lacak ad\u0131m\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bazen \u00f6yle \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar olur ki soluk solu\u011fa. Bunun yerine her basama\u011f\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak, asl\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir elin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc arkaya almak gibi destekler insan\u0131. Bununla birlikte baz\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar da vard\u0131r ki ki\u015fi bulundu\u011fu basama\u011fa methiyeler dizerken, gidece\u011fi hedefi unutur ve oyalan\u0131r durur\u2026 Ama bu oyalanma \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fa gitmiyorsa muhakkak bir g\u00fcn ini\u015fe gider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basamaklar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karken ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z olumsuzluklar ve negatif duygular ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 indirir. \u015e\u00f6yle bir bakarsan\u0131z \u00fczg\u00fcn, mutsuz insanlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 hep a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 e\u011fimlidir. Ne zaman ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131p, yukar\u0131 bakarlar o zaman havalar\u0131, ruh halleri de\u011fi\u015fir, negatiflikten kurtulurlar. Arada bir kafay\u0131 kald\u0131r\u0131p zirveye bakmak bizi desteklerken tepe taklak olmamak i\u00e7in bast\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yeri odakta tutmak da \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basamaklar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karken kazalar\u0131 \u00f6nleme ad\u0131na arkadan, sa\u011fdan, soldan gelenleri kontrol etmek, gerekirse yol vermek, istersek te yol arkada\u015f\u0131 olarak kabul etmek te bizi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc k\u0131lar. \u00d6n\u00fcm\u00fczden \u00e7\u0131kanlar\u0131 tebrik ve takdir ederken, \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 be\u011fendiklerimizden taktik alabilir, taklit bile edebiliriz. \u015eartlar zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz basamaklardaki kahramanl\u0131k hikayelerimizi tazelemenin tam zaman\u0131d\u0131r, zira bir kere ba\u015fard\u0131ysak \u2018yine yapabilirim\u2019 der ve yola devam ederiz. Burada dikkat edilecek en \u00f6nemli nokta ise ge\u00e7mi\u015f basamaklardaki sadece olumlu y\u00f6nlere odaklanmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f b\u00f6yle bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 iken, ini\u015f a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 do\u011fru ivmeli bir yuvarlanmad\u0131r. \u201cYuvarlan\u0131p gidiyoruz\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc o y\u00fczden bana hep ini\u015fi, bat\u0131\u015f\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r\u2026 \u0130ni\u015f \u00fczerine ba\u015fka s\u00f6ze hacet var m\u0131? Varsa e\u011fer, o da \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131n ge\u00e7ek anlam\u0131n\u0131 bilenler i\u00e7in asla ini\u015f yoktur sadece ders \u00e7\u0131karma, yani yine bir \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayatta hep yukar\u0131 bakanlar, hayat\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015fayanlard\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kainattaki d\u00fczende her \u015fey \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f \u00fczerine programlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130ni\u015f program\u0131n\u0131 yazan insan\u0131n kendisidir. Bununla birlikte insan i\u00e7in ya ini\u015f ya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f tercihi vard\u0131r, gerisi bize kalm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peki, \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 tercih edenler i\u00e7in soracak olursak;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sizin in\u015fa etmek istedi\u011finiz basamaklar\u0131n sonunda ne var?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yapmak istediklerinizin \u00f6nemi ne ki basamaklar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kas\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 nas\u0131l yapacaks\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Karar verdiyseniz ne duruyorsunuz, ilk ne ile ba\u015flayacaks\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Zor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, yapmaya de\u011fecekse imkans\u0131z de\u011fil\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"blob:https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/7a8e030f-950d-46bf-9d15-3f2cfd2ddf63\" alt=\"chev-down-white.svg\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/tr\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"blob:https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/9ba706db-4f2d-4a04-9f2d-68e3114ec1c5\" alt=\"logo.svg\"\/><\/a><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cY\u0131kmak \u00e7ok kolayd\u0131r, yapmak \u00e7ok zor!\u201d en sevdi\u011fim s\u00f6zlerden biri olmakla birlikte sonuna \u201cama imkans\u0131z de\u011fil\u201d c\u00fcmlesini eklemek istiyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayatta bir \u015fey zor ise imkans\u0131z de\u011fildir. Yeter ki istekli olunsun. Yapmaya ba\u015flarken yukar\u0131 do\u011fru \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla da bir g\u00fc\u00e7 sarf etmek vard\u0131r. Zorluk anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 buradan gelir \u0130nsan i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f basamak basamak ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir, bir anda olmaz. Basamaklar\u0131n sonunda neye ula\u015faca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11899,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11430"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11430\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11943,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11430\/revisions\/11943"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}